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Our method

Over the past 15 years, founder Ana Loiselle developed an alterative method to marriage counseling that helps people develop more satisfying relationships. Her approach fuses Biology of Emotions, Attachment Theory with Nonviolent Communication into practical and easy to learn strategies for improving relationships.

 

Straight to the Heart of the Matter

 

Scientists have discovered that the dizzying array of bad things that happen in relationships can all be traced to a single cause – deficiencies in the core set of abilities that are necessary for relationships to go well.

 

By measuring the presence or absence of these abilities, researchers have been able to distinguish partners who are headed to a satisfying relationship from partners who are headed for unhappy futures (or break-ups) with over 90% accuracy.

 

Most people believe that they have the abilities needed to make their relationships go well.  But available evidence suggests otherwise.

 

Studies indicate that most people DO NOT meet the prerequisites for relationship success. It’s not surprising then, that half of all people who marry in the U.S. eventually divorce, and at least half of the couples who stick it out are unhappy with their relationships. Most of us don’t have the habits needed to make our relationships thrive over the long haul. In fact, most people don’t even know what these crucial habits are. And the evidence shows these are not optional. If you want your relationship to go well, you simply must have them!

Why can it be so Hard?

 

The abilities that are needed for relationships to thrive are easy to understand and learn, but can be difficult to do because at key moments, we often experience strong urges and inclinations that take us in the wrong direction.

Researchers have discovered that, when a relationship is distressed, each partner generally reacts to the other during arguments in highly predictable and patterned ways.

 

Thanks to some very helpful brain research in the past 30 years, we now know that this is because, across our lives, our brains get conditioned to produce highly specific response programs.

 

Thankfully, hundreds of studies prove that the ability to shift internal states can be strengthened through practice just as surely as the mechanisms that enable complex musical or athletic movements. The Relationship Rewire Method™ teaches ways to...

  • Strengthen the ability to let go of upset feelings;

  • Reduce physical arousal in response to perceived threat;

  • Curb urges to judge, interrupt, counter, dispute, criticize and defend during disagreements;

  • Foster the inclination to remain open and flexible during disagreements;

  • To nourish safety and comfort within your partner.

But There's More...

 

 Ana's method goes beyond strengthening the ability to resolve disagreements. It provides methods for cultivating truly enjoyable and secure relationships.

 

Researchers have found that partners who build strong relationships built on "Us" grounded in emotional safety, fairness,  and collaboration can be distinguished from those who don’t by the degree to which they…

 

With Ana's method, partners learn to engage in daily practices that prime their brain for naturally-occurring feelings of warmth, tenderness, affection, playfulness, and sexual desire.

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