Serving SW Florida and Beyond • 90% Success Rate • In-Person & Online Available
Why the relationship
center?
If you’re searching for marriage counseling or couples therapy that actually works, you’re in the right place!
At The Relationship Center, we specialize in helping couples move out of conflict, rebuild trust, and feel close again — without spending years in therapy.
Our process blends modern relationship science, nervous-system research, and practical communication tools into a coaching process that get's straight to the heart of what’s really happening between you.
It’s transformation — science-backed, action-oriented, and designed to help you reconnect.
Our success rate speaks for itself—over 90% of couples who commit to the process experience real, lasting change.
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5 Reasons We
Get RESULTS!
What we do is different from traditional therapy — and that’s exactly why it works!
We don’t spend months rehashing the same fights or analyzing who’s right or wrong.
Instead, we focus on what’s really driving the disconnection: what’s happening in each person’s body, emotions, and communication patterns in the moments that matter most.
Our approach is grounded in modern relationship science, nervous system research, and proven communication tools. It helps couples slow things down, understand what’s really happening beneath the conflict, and create the conditions where real change can begin.
You'll Learn:
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Talk so your partner actually listens — without everything turning into a fight or shutdown.
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Understand what your partner is really trying to say instead of taking it as criticism or rejection.
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Stay connected even when you disagree — no more walking on eggshells or giving up.
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Calm tense moments before they spiral into the same old argument.
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Repair faster after conflict and move forward without resentment.
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Rebuild trust and safety after distance, disconnection, or betrayal.
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Bring back emotional and physical closeness so you both feel wanted again.
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90 MINUTE SESSIONS THAT GET TO THE ROOT
Our longer sessions give time to uncover what’s actually happening beneath the surface — whether that’s disconnection, resentment, or lingering hurt from the past.
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CUSTOMIZED AT HOME LEARNING
Change starts with understanding. Our private online learning space includes short videos, tools, and lessons that teach you the science behind connection, safety, and repair — the things most couples have never been shown. It’s simple, practical education that builds real awareness and accelerates growth.
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WE TEACH -- YOU PRACTICE -- TOGETHER
This isn’t talk therapy. It’s hands-on coaching that shows you exactly how to communicate differently, repair faster, and reconnect emotionally and physically. You’ll learn the practical skills that rebuild trust, safety, and genuine connection.
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STRATEGIC SESSION REVIEW
At times, portions of a session are recorded (always with permission) so our team can slow things down and study key moments more closely.
This helps us see patterns that may be hard to catch in real time and bring sharper insight and focus to your next session.
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GUIDANCE BETWEEN SESSIONS
Our work doesn’t end when the session does. At times, we’ll send short follow-ups — a reflection, a reminder, or something to think about — to help the process stay alive throughout the week.
You can also reach out if something important surfaces, so you never feel like you’re doing the work in isolation.
"Ana Loiselle changed everything for us. We were headed for divorce if we didn't find help fast. We were always fighting over the stupidest things. It was amazing to discover how we were emotionally threatening each other and how to instead soothe the other. We constantly think about what Ana said "soothe not threaten" and this has helped us diffuse so many of our fights. Now that we feel emotionally safe with each other we're becoming good friends and allies. When you understand the science behind this stuff it just clicks and makes it so much easier to do the right thing. We feel so in love again! So can you."
Brandon & Valerie
Hi, I'm ana lOISELLE
For more than 15 years, my work has been devoted exclusively to one thing — helping couples heal, rebuild trust, and fall back in love.
My passion for this work comes from experience, not just education. When my own marriage ended, I saw firsthand how painful it is when help comes too late — or when the help itself isn’t effective. I decided that couples in distress deserve more than a therapist “dabbling” in marriage work. They deserve someone completely devoted to it.
Over the past decade and a half, I’ve developed a proven approach that translates the latest discoveries in relationship science into clear, practical tools couples can use right away. I’ve trained in — and studied — nearly every major couples intervention model, and I continue to refine my method to meet each couple where they are.
The process we use at The Relationship Center blends depth, structure, and compassion. It helps partners move out of painful cycles and into emotional safety, honesty, and lasting connection.
I’ve had the honor of helping hundreds of couples — including those who once believed they were beyond repair — rebuild love and trust. Chances are, we can help you do the same.
"Ana, we can't thank you enough for helping us turn around our struggling 22 year marriage. A marriage that had grown distant, cold and plagued with bickering we found ourselves saying "there's got to be more." We have since come to understand just how we were pushing the other away. We had stopped being interested in the other and assumed we already knew everything there was to know -- big mistake! You and your team really showed us how to consistently provide what the other needs. We are a testament that your method works! Thank you again for everything."
David & Carol, Florida
“This is one of the best investments my wife and I have ever made! We weren’t having “problems”, but we were not the best at resolving conflict. So my wife and I wanted to take a proactive approach to our relationship and learn new ways to resolve conflict that were productive. Sometimes we would be at a stalemate about a conflict and/or hurt each others feeling in the process or not get a resolution. We’d both been to couples counseling before in our prior marriages and didn’t find it helpful (there were not any practical skills learned that would enable us to take those skills and apply them effectively, nor effective enough that we would not need to return to counseling). Unlike counseling, Ana, has taught us skills that we won’t have to see her very often, maybe just a little “tune-up” from time to time…to me that’s an irresistible proposition.
Don Albuquerque, NM
faq
ARE YOU READY?
Think about this…
what is your relationship problems costing you?
We don’t mean in dollars and cents;
We're talking about the
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emotional pain,
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the sleepless nights,
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how it effects your work,
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the impact on the kids, and
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the stress. Ohh the Stress!
Your relationship right now, rather than being a source of comfort, is stressing you out!
You have to do something. Your situation will not resolve itself.
If you want change; you need to learn NEW ways of interacting. You need to do things differently!
If you don’t, you may live in constant stress and insecurity and look back one day and wonder how it could have been different -- had you only gotten the right help at the right time.
This is the time!
Let's Get To Work!
Regardless of the particulars of your issues, if you want to save your marriage…if you want to relieve your pain and bring love back to your relationship . . . this is your chance! Ana's approach has proven itself to be MORE EFFECTIVE than traditional marriage counseling.
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